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The Paradox of the Queer Man: Masculinity and Performative Queerness
Now Playing: Through Wolf’s Eyes by Elvenking So I’m pretty openly queer. I make no secret of the fact that gender is weird, a fact that can make navigating the world really complicated. But the thing is, it also makes navigating queer spaces really complicated. Hear me out for a minute. Also, as a note…
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Polyamory: Internal Struggles, Communication, and Long Distance
Now Playing: The Voynich Manuscript by Elvenking A couple weeks ago, I talked about some of the internal struggles of polyamory and how it can be a struggle to navigate some of the legal and social pressures surrounding that. The part I didn’t talk about was how internal pressures can also make it weird. Now,…
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Polyamory: Stigma and Other Social Judgements
Now Playing: Herdchant by Elvenking Within the realm of what is considered socially standard, we are assigned a gender based on an observation of (and, in the case of some intersex children, surgery on) our external gonads, and from that, we are expected to fall in love and want to have sex with exactly one…